I'm interested to know if since your loved one who you were caring for died, have you found yourself less tolerant of anything that even resembles bad behavior towards yourself. I know that I am much more inclined to not just let things go anymore. I had a run-in with my sister yesterday and in the past it would be bothering me to the point where I would probably have phoned her and apologized even though it wasn't me who was in the wrong. Now I am just fine with it and she can jolly well apologize to me. Can anyone one there relate to this?