I am primary caregiver. No help from siblings. Stress on marriage. My husband helps when he is able but travels with work. We never have privacy, time alone or outside of our house. Feels like we are prisoners. She falls often so I worry constantly. 911 sends out hep but it’s so scary.
I love my mom. Want to take care of her but am so tired. Have been doing this for decades. She is 93. My husband and I are 63. We never get to visit our own children. They come occasionally to see us when possible.
Tough situation. Trying to figure out what is best.