What can I do?? I already have two therapist coming a week and a house cleaner once a week and I haven't seen the doctor in a while now. I know that I need someone to help me. I have fallen three times in the past year and am black and blue on my arms. I took a fall the other day and cut my arm deeply and left a large bump on my right arm. I have dementia and have lost about 50 lbs in the past two years. I am an excellent cook by profession. I am also a good driver and have driven for most of my life as a job. So what do I do? I lost my wife 3 years ago with liver cancer.