I have now been my mom's caregiver going on 2 years. I feel more like her Warden instead of her daughter. My mom has Alzheimer's and my siblings don't help at all. She barely can walk and refuses to use her walker. She also has a colostomy bag that she can't manage. So needless to say I have my hands full with her. I too suffer from an auto immune disease called AS and some days the pain in my back is unbearable. I also have a 14 year old daughter and a husband. I left my job to take care of my mom. Due to having AS my doctor suggested that I file for disability and that is still pending. My mom's so defiant and getting more and depressed every day. She praise my siblings who hardly ever visit her but gets so angry with me because she can't chew gum because she swallows it and it stops up her stoma for her colostomy bag. She can't stand more than a minute and is addicted to pain pills and Xanax. What can I do to make our living situation better?