My mom has been in and out of the hospital and nursing homes in the last year now. I recently sold the house she lived in and well I feel really bad. My mom was a hoarder, kept everything and well I had to throw a lot away as I didn't have room to store all of it. My brother has a lot of it in the basement of his houw. My mom wanted to keep everything but with a hoarder you can not. I am the sole caregiver for her. SHe is in a nursing home right now and seems to be ok at the present time, but seems to be sad. I worry on how I am going to pay bills, keep up with her needs, I am 1 1/2 hours away so I cant just run over there. Its been a strain on the whole family and I am ready to lose it. I can't get any help and yet sometimes I don't answer the phone when she calls just cause I can't deal with her asking where is everythiing. What to do any advice?