My husband recently joined the military so we had to move to a new state away from everyone and everything we've ever known. His grandpa had been living at a laundromat for free for the past ten years but the owner of it sold it and he was forced to move out. He is a healthy man but everywhere he moved into with his children he ended up complaining and moving out. Well my husband thought it would be a good idea to have him come live with us. I was fine with it at first but now I hate it! I take care of everything and cook for everyone. For some reason he thinks when I cook I need to serve him, he thinks I get to do his laundry, and basically do everything I do for my husband for him too. I told my husband it bothers me and he thinks I'm just being mean. He doesn't pay for anything. And expects us to pay for him when we go out to eat (we never get to go just us and our baby like a family he always wants to tag along). Another thing is that ever since he moved in I feel like my husband is just my roommate, because if he is not at work he is watching movies with him or playing pool or darts with him. I could be speaking and he corrects me and comes up with an obviously made up story from when he was young just to give me a "life lesson". I'm so drained, I have our 1 year old to take care of, my husband, I do online school, I have our home to keep clean, and now I even have to care for him and make sure he has all his medicine and make sure he makes it to all his appointments even though he had been doing it himself this whole time so I know he can do it himself! I am so drained, I'm only 19 years old and I feel like this is all too much! What should I do?!