She is my mom. She let our stepfather abuse us our whole childhood. I have POA, she lives in the same town. I begged her to move to my town since my sis passed and there was no one else to take care of her in her old age. About 3 years ago I literally woke up and had a flash back that really opened my eyes about the abuse and her part in it. I don't want to take care of her. She still lives alone. She has early Alzheimer's or dementia, its pretty common in her family and she is 78.