Even after 41 yrs married to her son, we never got along. Moved to Fl (1200 miles) to get away from his family. We were happy. Then Jan 2019, my husband went up north, realized that she cannot care for herself, and brought back not only his mom, who is in full dementia now (which did not make her nicer) but his 58 yr old extremely overweight mentally retarded brother. My husband's health is starting to deteriorate so I am left taking care of all 3 of them while working a full time job. I see no forums for people taking care of family members that are not good people. Forums are all about how they love their parents and sad they are losing them to this disease. I am angry and depressed b/c of the life we had and how drastically it’s changed in 18 months. We looked into facilities but we simply cannot afford them. I guess I just needed to vent.