I was the RN...carried the full load, with my husband, until mum died at 91....14 long, difficult years. My sister lives on the opposite coast and visited once a year, for a week. I had a meltdown yesterday when I saw her bill, a screaming fit, and want to cut my sister out of my life. I tried talking to her on the phone and she said, “I’m legally entitled to this.” Why is it so unfair? What do I do? Why did I work for free and she is not?