My dad refuses to go to the doctor. He can't stand them telling him what to do and just trying to give him pain pills for things. I feel so helpless. I've told my dad I will go with him. He doesn't want to mess my work up, but I tell him you are important to me and I have time I can use. The only health aid he has he has run into the ground. She gave me an update on a sore he has above his heel. Its horrible. He won't listen to her. She is asking me to do something. What do I do? I've talked till I cry with my dad about it. I've tried to understand his choices. I know he is scared to go to the hospital and have to go to assisted living. I just don't know what to do or who to call. Do I call his case worker? He will know it was me or his aid. I'm losing my father. He frustrates me but I love him. He is a quad in a wheelchair living independent. 14 years.