My mother had a stroke 3 years ago and she insists on living at home. She was given therapy and was doing great until she got home and now she expects me to do everything. I have a family and household to care for too. She can walk and do much more than she lets on. She is demanding and wants control over my life. My husband and kids who are over 18 have been fantastic in understanding my situation. Now my mother is telling everyone I am taking her money and that is a lie. I am out money because I can't work since I care for her and I pay for the gas for going over and back a few times daily. My married daughter has helped me when I have gotten sick and can't make it to my mothers but she is so fed up with the way my mother talks about me and won't go over unless I need her to. I can't take it anymore and it's not her health doing this it is that she is only nice to men for the past 10 years. I get blamed for everything and when it is proved it is a guy who has taken something or stolen from her it is suddenly no problem and she smiles atg them like they are wonderful while still blaming me for being upset about it. I am an only child and have nobody else to help. When someone says how lucky she is to have my help and dedication she becomes meaner. I have set it up for her to have help come in and she will have a share a cost but I am so done.