I'm trying to make sure that she is happy. Anytime I try and take some time to do anything for myself, I feel so guilty. I am fighting depression and have stopped taking care of myself like I use to. I have no regrets as I believe honouring my parents is what God tells us to do. I love my mom and she is a very pleasant and sweet lady. I just cannot figure out how to regain some of myself without taking from her. I love so there will be no regrets. I am just trying to find balance. Trying to keep her busy doesn't leave me much time. So I am awake til late in the morning just trying to relax from my day, so I am always tired. I am not complaining, I am blessed to have her and have had my dad and the opportunity to assist them to live their lives. My whole life changed about 4 years ago, but I still cant figure it out. But I am just searching for balance. Anyone relate? Anyone have experience with this.