My mom is 93 years old. She has dementia and currently does have home attendant care in her home. And for a while I was doing every weekend Friday night and Saturday. After work on Friday I would go pick her up and take her back home to my house. Sunday through Friday I work and by the time Monday came around I was exhausted. My sister would take her on Saturday after I dropped my mom off. Even though it was only Friday night and half of Saturday I was so tired. I have a brother who lives only a few blocks away and he says the responsibility of caring for our mom are the daughters. Because we are the women. Our mom needs care 24/7. Mom is very difficult. My sister and I are doing the best we can. I am stressed and neglected my family. All my life if I am true to myself I have put my mom first over my family. I could write a lot more but it is too exhausting for me.