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it works for me .
"If you can't run, you walk, and if you can't walk, you crawl, and if you can't do that... you find someone to carry you" (quote from Firefly ,but appropriate)
You wrote "I could say "hang in there, it gets better" but it doesn't get better.
Hang in there: it gets DIFFERENT."
Perfectly said for any loss. I'm going to quote you to help others.
Heaven is just over there I know
Sometimes I wish I could visit or go
Life here on earth is so hard I know
But if I could just visit Heaven I'd go
Then come back to earth and share God's love
To the people who need it from God's eyes above
May God Bless each and everyone of us, Amen
BUT please, reach out to someone or a group if you are at the end of your rope. THERE IS HELP through this season of your life.
Lifting you up in prayer today, along with my Aunt, who lost her only son.
Longears and Captain, you are in my prayers too. I would never even try to say that I know how it feels because I don’t. I have two daughters and I love them dearly. That part I know. I can’t imagine losing them though.
Again, I am so very sorry. I do believe a part of them is still with you. They live in your hearts and always will.
I could say "hang in there, it gets better" but it doesn't get better. Hang in there: it gets DIFFERENT.
It really & truly sucks that your son died! Your world really did end that day. You will not get "over" this. You will get THROUGH it. In your own time, at your own pace, the brutally sharp edges will become smoother, rounded.
You will be able to go down the cereal aisle & not cry when you see his favorite cereal. You will be able to bake your special cookies again. You will find yourself humming along with the radio again.
You are loved. You make a difference in the world around you. People you may not know care about you.
We were at our daughter's house for months. The neighbors paid our water bills. My first time back, the lady at the drive thru said she noticed I hadn't been through & hoped everything was okay. We had only shared comments on the weather or wishes for happy holidays, but she realized I wasn't there. I always feel invisible. But someone noticed when I was wasn't there. Amazing!
My heart is broken for you. I will grieve for you, one mom to another. Those who are on this site will have open arms, warm hearts & caring support for you! GOD bless & keep you in his holy care!!!
Reach out to a support group and take baby steps like my cousin did to a tragic loss of his daughter a few years ago.
He was a pastor and now helps people in prison ministry.
Whatever you do don't give up and fight those feelings, as you are loved by many.
Call your doctor and she can help you also. xoxo
the survivors went on with life for the purpose of supporting other loved ones . my closest son was taken away by a senseless murder three years ago . theres no way in hell that you could be more alone than i am right now . i have to continue on because someday i might touch the life of someone i havent even met yet .
as easily as bad things could happen -- good things could happen too . past experience tells me to expect BOTH .
As Gershun said if you are feeling suicidal please get help stat. Life is worth living and even though heartaches and heartbreaks occur, they are only for a season and will pass. Please hang in there and DO NOT GIVE UP. A big hug to you.
I know when my Mom lost her oldest son, it broke her heart. So I have seen firsthand the pain you must feel. But please do not think that life is not worth living. You can do so much in honor and memory of your son.
I am sure that your son would not want you to feel like this, he would want you to continue living, for you have a purpose to fulfill.
What got my Mom through is her faith.
God heals and comforts. And I will be praying for you that you are comforted and that you call on our only help and only hope, Jesus.
You sound very desperate and we can all help you more if you share more details.
In the meantime, hang in there......don't give up. If you are feeling suicidal please get yourself some help right away. Phone a suicide hotline, call a friend. There is help out there.