I live in a developing country (I am the citizen of this country) My mom (79) has AD and lives in her house with a professional carer. My father (81) is bedridden, has a PEG, a colostomy bag, dementia and lives in a nursing home. I live in my home. I feel like I am taking care of three households all by myself. Even if I am not the "hands on" carer for mom and dad there is constant work like paperwork for insurance to get medical supplies and medicines for dad , mom's doctor appointments, shopping for mom's house, medical supplies for dad's nursing home. Also, I am constantly worried about money. I am paying for both of their expenses. This may go on for years, even for a decade or more! I have depression and anxiety disorder, tachycardia and take a number of medications to control it. I am constantly under immense stress. Unfortunately I am a smoker and I am so stressed I can not quit. I feel that I will die before them. That makes me worried both for them and me. I feel that my life is over. I about to be 50.