My dad is 102 and believe it or not is now starting to forget with some confusion. He can hardly hear which makes things more difficult when trying to talk to him. As I write this its 2am and he just called me to ask why its so dark outside. We live in the same building, so I ran down to talk to him and he still couldn't understand that it was 2 in the morning. I do have help come in 5 days a week for 4 hours. I feel he needs more but he is stubborn and does not want anyone staying all day. I tried to explain that he is stresses me to no end. He yells and tells me to go home but the next day he is calling me to do things for him. I am 66 years old and feel like I have no life. I can't go anywhere because I won't leave him alone for long. My husband who has been very patient with all this , is now losing his patience he wants to go on vacations (we are both recently retired) and I know its not fair to him..I feel like I am being pulled apart ...Help!