I've been very cautious so far and finally found my way to being willing to open myself up to a relationship at all. Now my boyfriend's father passed away and he abruptly moved in with his mom to take care of her. I am a business owner and work very long hours. Now for us to spend time together I leave work late, run by my house to just be sure it's there and then go to his (Mom's) place. I don't want to be selfish but it's getting kind of old.