I am disabled myself, but have two younger sisters. My mother lives by herself right now, but if she needs care in the future, I struggle with what to do. I am disabled by painful neuropathy that I have had from the waist down for 5 years. My husband has to do much of the yard and housework and some shopping. I can only stand in one place for about 10 minutes, shop for up to 30 and sitting varies. I have two sisters 9 and 11 years younger and in good health, but I'm afraid of a fight in the future because my sister believes in "fair share" and "taking turns." I already help my mom with things if needed - technology, laundry, light shopping, doctor visits, etc. I am beating myself up mentally because of what might be the future even though I know I can't help because of my own health.