My father passed in 2018. So I’m it. Only child, single and I’m looking for assistance with her care. Do I call a home care service? I don’t need someone everyday but maybe a weekend off or help with bathing and getting my mom up and about. She refuses to listen to me. But seems to listen to others. She won’t get up to go to her dr and I can’t pick her up and put her in the car. I’m dealing with burn out and just don’t even know if I’m doing anything right to keep her healthy as best as 92 year old with dementia can be. She also has copd and her kidneys are at stage 3 kidney disease. I’m just kinda lost because the dr won’t sign her up for home health care unless she is comes in for an X-ray of her lungs and I can’t get her to get in the car to do that. What other nurse services are there out there that could come and just check on my mom? Thank you for any advice !!