Dr said when he forgets were he lives then worry now he won't go for further testing, he becomes enraged over nothing he thinks what he remember is right I am wrong he gets very angry at this how do I get him to a dr I don't know what to do His mother died 3 years ago from complications of Alzheimer's.
If the rage becomes too severe, please get to a safe place and call the police. They will probably know how to handle it best. If it is the normal type of dementia anger, going along with things said may be enough. Dealing with someone with dementia can often be like living in an alternate universe. The hopeful thing is that the extreme anger often passes with time.
He lived on, happy as a clam, for another 3 years.
The sooner you place him, the more easily he'll adjust. Oh, and you need a new doctor. I would suggest a well qualified geriatric psychiatrist.
Once hubby is in ER the doctors will do the testing that is needed. When it comes time to discharge him from the hospital, tell the hospital that you can no longer care for him at home, unless the doctors are able to calm your husband with meds.... if not, a case worker will place your husband in a continuing care facility.
Remember, with such memory issues this could become worse, this is for your own safety. No one wants to see you get hurt.