This was a week after telling his doctor he wanted to do whatever was needed to help me. We had already decided to get a reverse mortgage but we have to have a power of attorney to get one. My sons and other family members, as well as his doctor, know this is what he wanted. What do I do? He has good days where he knows what you are asking him and other days, he doesn't. He has not done anything such as handle money matters or healthcare matters for over 4 years. I have been the only person to take care of him and his affairs for these 4+ years.