This practice drives me up the wall!! He stays in bed about 22 hours a day!!! I'm already burnt out from work here for him!!! I haven't been to hairdresser in almost 2 yrs!! I need eyeglasses, dental work and general maintenance for myself!! I love my husband, but I'm tired and burnt-out! He has dementia, high blood pressure and diabetes. He can walk hardly now. I'm disabled myself, but I get around the best I can. I'm just disgusted and tired! God help me! What can I do?