My son and his wife, a nurse, want us to move close to them so they can help his father. Worried how husband will handle a move. Curently we live about 80 miles from our son. My husband has a life-time & career full of books and papers that need to be given to charity or thrown out. He is approaching Stage 5 so he knows what's going on and is very combative. He doesn't want to move but I have no family to help me where we are.
When all is said and done am I better to stay here among all his stuff.