And spending more and more time in bed. He doesn't even get up to eat, only to use the bathroom. Should I insist that he get out of bed? or should I make him get up for meals? This is all very new to me and I'm unsure how to handle these situations. I usually have to force him to take his meds and shots, otherwise he simply doesn't do it. It's difficult to know where to draw the line, as he isn't really disabled and is quite capable of taking care of himself. He often puts his shirt on backwards or inside out, he often wears two pairs of pants and two belts at the same time. Do I try to correct these things or allow him to discover the mistakes himself? I would appreciate any advice, please.