I am POA for my 81-year old mother. The dilemma is whether or not to move before my mother passes away. She is not in a condition to move with us. If I move away before she passes, she will be devastated, and feel abandoned, and there are no other family members who would be around to visit or serve as POA. If I wait until she passes, she could live another 10 years, and our health could change and it would be too late to enjoy the rest of our lives. Please help?