My husband is in denial that I have Frontotemporal Dementia. After years of my ability to perform my job going downhill, three neurologists, two psychiatrists, neuropsyh testing, blood work, MRIs, a PET scan, and a spinal tap (to rule out other causes); it is the most likely diagnosis but doctor is not 100% positive. PET scan showed some deterioration to frontal and temporal lobes of my brain but very minimal. I say lets be proactive and not wait until my function decreases more before getting involved in Clinical Trials, support groups, educational seminars, etc. This is very disheartening. His job is more important to him than being involved in my health. He did go with me to one appt with my specialist (neurologist in Rochester, NY who specializes in memory disorders) but won't go again unless guaranteed that there is some benefit/treatment for me. Divorce has been discussed and counseling briefly tried. I am overwhelmed by the prospect of divorce. I can't deal with that to be honest. We need to return to the marriage counselor but he won't. He has also split our finances after 34 years of marriage with combined finances. I am so freaked out.