Husband needs nursing home care because of a muscle disease. Wants to reside with wife of 60 years. Presently at Oak Hills in New Ulm with Hoyer lift for transferring. He is a former school administrator and teacher. Has full mental faculties. We need help soon. We are presently going through a spend down for him so he can qualify for Medicare and Medicaid assistance through Brown County. Our goal is to remain together in a pleasant facility.