He has short term memory loss and incontinence. He has fallen hurrying to the bathroom and fell in his bedroom and fractured 3 vertebrae. For a person who showered every day he doesn't like to shower very often. We have been married 57 years and he still is the love of my life but I don't know how to get him to use a cane or the walker or shower more often. Please give me suggestions. THANK YOU for this column and everyone's wonderful help.