It's confusing in these days of healthcare that uses what they call "step down" from acute care to rehab or long term care. The case workers and the doctors etc talk to each other but unless the caregivers are proactive they get lost in the decision making. My concerns are that number one , my husband doesn't hear well with hearing aids and he is a gentle and good patient that never asks questions or says no. That causes me to feel like I have to be there every day , all day and because of that I get nothing done at the house. The time that I have to be away from the hospital, I am fearful that they will decide things that will affect us both. There is a time for trusting the medical people ad a time to be cautious. What do you do? It stresses you but you have to try to keep your fears from your spouse so they don't worry as they try to get better.