I am not sure I want that. After he is gone, I will be alone in the house. If he were to pass away any where in the house, I think I afraid I would feel very uncomfortable. We have talked about it and he tells me to put him in another room ..not our bedroom. He is alert and is definite as to what is wants and expects.. He knows how I feel about it.Finally I told him it is not something we need to think about right now.. But the time will come then what should I do?
He does have VA Benefits and there is an inpatient hospice unit at our local VA. I took him to visit it... No surprise he was not very impressed with it . I explained it as a last resort....when I can no longer handle him at home for safety reasons..he says to hire help in the home which we can afford to do but that is not solving the main issue of him dying in the home. Still says he wants to die at home.
How do I honor his wishes? Any advice?