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Jan123: This site certainly has great tips/advice. All the readers are so generous in helping others (I'm thankful for each one). If I may, I'd just like to share a little story about a friend who's Dad was at the stage where she hadn't gotten him into a NH or assisted living complex at the time. He really thought he could drive, but was getting lost when he would go anywhere. She ended up putting a fake key on his key ring (similar to the real one) - so he would get to the car and then come back in the house saying, "I must have the wrong keys" -- then he would go sit down and read or watch TV. His dementia was a little more progressed, so he forgot that he wanted to go anywhere. This worked for her until finally (sadly) he had to have 'round-the-clock care. Maybe this could help someone else. Thanks for reading!
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I remember my mom doing this.....giving things away or buying things and the next day not remembering buying them. After she moved to the dem/alz facility the neighbors brought sacks of things she had given to them unbeknownst to my dad. We couldn't believe it. So yes, it is a progression as is hiding things. When we sold the house and moved my dad into a retirement facility we finally found his Rolex watch that she had hidden and bras all over the place. She was like our 3 year old grand son. He hides so many things that we might never see again. :) It sounds like you are on top of things by changing drs. and getting some help there. No one wants to confront someone about driving. I have had that conversation gradually with my dad. I have him "thinking" about it. But I know it's coming when I have to put my foot down. Ugh.....not looking forward to it because that means I will be doing more errands and drs. appts than I even do now and I live 30 minutes away. But it is the best thing for ALL concerned. Good luck and God Bless
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I'm scared about driving. I can't do it because of physical disability. My wife, an excellent driver, has incipient dementia (runs in her family). I can no longer let her go anywhere alone, because she can't remember where to turn. Since a scary episode last month when she got lost, she hasn't wanted to go anywhere without me. Except for the fact that I'm not supposed to sit for a long time, that's fine with me
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A person who is scared of driving should not get behind the wheel of a motor vehicle, as a car is a weapon! You don't want vehicular manslaughter on your record if you were to kill someone!
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