My sister is coming to take care of me and spend the night at my home with my husband so he won’t be alone. Do you think I should let my husband come to the hospital during my surgery or visit me in my hospital room that evening. Or should I just let my brother-in-law stay home with him. I’ve tried to explain that I’m having surgery but he doesn’t seem to get it. I’m devastated over the loss of a caring, doting husband. I feel abandoned and alone. And I worry what would happen to him if I wasn’t around. Please help me. I feel like I’m drowning!