Husband left me (no Adultry) after receiving lump sum of money. We were not happy. He returned 2 yrs. later. I found pics in his phone of him tied to a chair, nude & blind folded, women fondling him. There was also a man & another women there. Also, found images of his sexual organ, bodily fluids & a womens buttocks on the chair he was tied to. Found more pics of him sleeping, & a pic of his organ, picks of his face. More pics of his erect member! Credit card record showed activity of alcohol, food & cash withdrawls. He doesnt do alcohol ! ALSO his credit card & other valuables were not stolen. AND he said a women approached him asking to spend the night AGAIN! He claims he doesn't recognize her! I texted a no. in his phone, person said his pics were sent to them too. There was also a pic of a man holding my husband up w/ 2 women on each side. Who took that pic? Also there are pics of him sleeping & sitting in someones car, while someone takes pics of him. He also said he had a VERY realistic sex dream about that time. MY HUSBAND CLAIMS HE (DOESN'T REMEMBER) THE PEOPLE, OR WHERE HE WAS OR THE SEX ACTS! I would like a divorce on grounds of Adultry even though he CLAIMS TO NOT REMEMBER! He's not sure he had intercourse. His apt. building had a lot of illegal activity in it! I'm about to get Gaurdianship & put him in Locked memory care, or fulltime care. He is in his own NEW apt. But the dementia is getting worse! HE IS 73YRS. I'm going crazy!! What should I do?