I have no one to educate me or help. I'm scared in the last 8 months there has been slow decline with once in a while something out of ordinary like we had busy Memorial weekend and without thought I had planned a doctor appointment the next day we had our daughter and family here so naturally everything different. The following day he went outside thought he wanted to mow lawn [too hot] came in [I also try and let him do certain things so he feels helpful ] anyway he like crashed into being confused for 15 hours didn't know where the toilet was could get into bed right just couldn't function. At time I had a VA nurse I could call and I did assessment of stroke he was able to use everything and followed my hand with his eyes. She said follow my gut. It didn't seem like a stroke read on line maybe delirium but it said after hospital stays to to this day I'm not sure what it was but he isn't quit the same. This story is to long to explain. Without support the nurse is done at VA and no one has called to take over our case [a month] I feel abandoned by friends [They seems distant now] and the system. I know routine!!!!! but I'm only 61 he is 66 its been a little over 4 years I sold my business given up everything and yes I have a hard time with routine everyday I have a lot of responsibly with house and outdoors and my grandkids are the only thing I have to look forward to so I know its hard on him when they here everything out of wack but, I can't have that taking away too, I love him dearly we have been married 43 years, hope you understand I need to vent cause no one else seems to have time to listen , BIG question has anyone had a episode for 15 hours like that.