Once immaculate about himself my husband now sleeps in his clothes. My husband has taken to dressing in head to toe camouflage, as if he were back in VIetnam. He keeps his key and money in the pockets of these cargo pants. He won't let me wash the pants because he would lose track of these items. I bought identical pants for him and washed the first pair and he lost track of his key and got locked out of the house. Our son couldn't get him to shower either. My husband insisted that he had just taken a shower. Delusion. Insisting strongly on anything gets him very agitated, so I've taken the road of capitulation. I'm aware of the health issues involved with the lack of personal hygiene, but I can't fight with him. I feel guilty that I can't even manage these basic tasks. Any advice is welcome.