I have been caring for my father for 15 years, Moved in with my 2 kids after my divorce because I was disabled and couldn't afford to live on my own. I got married 5 years ago and my husband moved in. Their personalities clash so hard. Dad is a hard worker and believes every man should get up at 5am and go provide for his family. My husband is an artist, he likes to keep weird hours and doesn't have steady work. Dad wants him to "be a man and get a real job", "help out around the house" My husband wants my dad to take care of his own bills and house and hygiene problems. I am stuck right in the middle and have no idea how to handle it. All it is doing is breaking me down to the point of just running away from both of them. Help?