I can't understand why she can't let go of arguments? We had an argument when visiting my sister 2 weeks ago and Mom didn't like it that my sisters and I were talking in the bedroom. She came in and started an argument about we were always against her. When we tried to tell her we weren't talking about her, she said we were lying to her. She doesn't understand that it isn't always about her. My sisters and I had not been together for a few years but all mt Mother saw was that we were closing her out.
Since we have returned from our trip, she keeps bringing it up and wants to know why I am not on her side. I keep telling her it is not about sides and then I go in another room. This morning I hugged her and within a minute she brought up the whole thing again. Why can't she let it go?