I have pleaded often for my siblings to get together yet my sisters have very much vilified me even though one of them has always been critical and "embarrassed" of me during family functions (I got transparent and told my second cousin who teaches kids with Learning disabilities I too have one; this was "shaming" to her) and the other is convinced I am out to harm my ailing mother physically and otherwise. I go to my mother's house and help her during the day as she has fallen before, and I clean up and cook without being able to rely on my sibling to pick up the slack, if I were to ask her to fold the laundry I had no time to fold, she will either ignore me or worse tell me that I "cannot tell her what to do". This is crazy making. My other sibling, took something that my mother twisted (as she most likely has what psychiatry calls a "personality disorder" and at 86 is undiagnosed) whereby she baited me to get ready for a funeral of a cousin's husband, and then upon my getting dressed for it, tells me "what are you talking about, I didn't say we were going"...I had been asleep due to a very bad bout of stomach trouble the night before, and she seemed to sense "weakness" so she woke me up to get ready for an early morn funeral. I got angry; yelled at her and told her off in so many words, and left slamming her door. I lived in the flat above her's, I could hear her on the phone to my sibling telling her to hurry up and get here for the funeral. My sister arrived and we went without my mother. My mother had whispered something on the phone to my sister so I can only guess it was about my reaction to her baiting me. On that fateful day the troubles began. She told my other sister that I had hit her, and about a year or so later, my younger sister admitted that my mother had said I had slammed her into the wall and pinned her up and I don't know what else (none of this is what happened) My mother had sciatica all of her life and I would never physically harm her..or anyone else because I literally am a big chicken, abused kid grown up gutless. She was always sick and I am the eldest and took care of her, often missing school in elementary... so my only defense stance has been to yell back (usually she's yelling at me) and then I leave the house or go upstairs to my flat. If I am well-slept and feeling well, I will just leave and slam the door. On this fateful day, she decided to walk to the police station and claim I was hitting her. Thus, my other sister's reactions to me are both in her part bullyingish and down right threatening to my own physical well being like she is going to do to me what my mother "said" I did to her......as she will come toward me and block me at the door (she called the police claiming harrassment when I sent her a barage of emails on the topic of narcissistic mothers and asking her if she is able to see the truth yet) so now if we happen to show up at the house at the same time (I no longer rent from my mother). this ...my other sister ....now threatens to call the police on me if she thinks I have "shown up to the house without permission" from my mother..my mother is dying due to final stages of her disease and I know I won't have to ever see these misguided and vile creatures again afterwards. I am alone a lot, due to tending to my traumas of being in this family, and I live on my health benefits though I have an employer to go back to once I have healed up. I live in Canada, and we don't have the same laws as the USA...but I wish I knew what to expect they'll do to me after the death of my mother. I know my youngest wants to buy the house from the estate and that my other sister is going to "stop me" if I don't agree to selling my share. I have her on tape. In Canada we can tape not video people without their knowing. I feared them and have reason to believe they are planning an legal ambush and false accusations. The POA is my uncle btw.