A senior has given over responsibilities for home care, checking account, paying bills etc. However, she gets the mail, and opens the bank statements and the confusion of the bills makes her agitated. Any suggestions? She is 86, had a stroke and has dementia, but worries about every penny and doesn't understand the costs, and a "its being taken care of look here is how" isn't good enough because I do it differently then her, ( by differently I mean online, use debit instead of checks..etc.) Its the statement that is tripping this up.