I will definitely support this person in their new environment. Prayers to Jesus to take him from where he did not needed to be. Will always be there for them. I appreciate all comments from all of yous Thank you. But when the person is the Golden Goose with the Golden Eggs I know first hand of what they are capable of. Seem if happen several of times In my life
Not quite certain what you are saying. Are you saying he did not need to be in NH because you would care for him? because I agree with pp, NH would not take him unless appropriate. People can need NH because of mental, physical issues or both. If he was mentally competent, you two could have married, and that would have solved this. If he is not competent, then his POA is free to make a decision. From what you say, the guy has a lot of money and his family (kids?) want that to go them, not you. Understandable. If it has happens several times in your life, maybe your expectations are not reasonable.
I suggest you forget about removing the person from LTC and instead concentrate on how you can support them in their new environment. Clearly they weren’t placed in the facility simply because their family wants to keep them away from someone. Clearly they require nursing home level care aka round the clock care so be happy they are receiving the care they need.
I have to agree. There is certain criteria that has to be met for a person to be placed in a NH. This person must have met the criteria. Someone in the family must have POA and the person was found to be incompetent to care for himself so he was placed in a NH.
If you are the woman in question, you cannot go around the family and remove him from the nursing home.