My partner of 37 years was put into a "care center" one hundred miles south of here two months ago. I filled out 55 pages of documents to be his "representative". I participated in group care calls and responses. I visited him twice a week for two weeks at great expense. During the last visit four women surrounded me, took me to the front office, told me I can never visit him again, and wanted to shove me out the front door. They said there is an Adult Protective Services report that I do not know about, and there has never been an investigation. I was with him at the local hospital every day after I asked for an ambulance to take him there. He fell in the bathroom and had a strained thigh. I took care of him until the leg had alot of painless motion. The apartment manager here asked for a welfare check instead of the ambulance without my knowledge. The police were a surprise, and the larger bodied male one was saying strange false and accusatory things. I said, "I see you have your judgements". He told me to talk with the smaller male police person in the hallway. I did that - calmly stating the situation. Things people have said to me make it clear that the proposed APS report is false and inappropriate.
My partner wanted me to visit him. I cannot visit or call for 5 weeks now. I emailed the County Civil Rights Commission person. I did not get an answer.