My aunt is a recent widow, 74 years old. She is putting off hip surgery and has difficulty walking. She only has two people with whom she talks. With me, she is very bossy and never takes no for an answer. She is lonely, but I hate spending time with her because she is always wanting more than I can give. PS. Before my uncle died, we were not close for years. I want her to get her surgery and join a senior group or anything to make friends. She is a very friendly but closed off person at the same time. She is also a hoarder, which may be why she never invited people.