I am at my wits end. My husband has ALS and dementia. He is 80. Our sex life ended many years ago. He has ED for many years. These last few months he is driving me crazy. He can't have an erection or reach climax. He can't open his hands. He sleeps with a ventilator. He keeps telling me he's "horney." I gave into him as much as I could. He of course had no satisfaction. I tried and tried. I figure maybe this would stop him. But after not even 5 minutes of course he forgot and started all over again. Please if anyone has been through this and has any ideas I would appreciate it. I feel ashamed to even explain to his neurologist.