My husband and I did everything to keep his mother in her home. There were numerous falls and after the last fall in June 2024 he decided staying in a nursing home was best. She thought she was staying for rehab and kept asking when she was going home. We kept telling her from advice we got from healthcare workers it was best for her to stay in the snh. She had given my husband her house last year so we moved in there in August and are remodeling it. She was furious and while we were on vacation decided to take away POA from my husband and let his oldest son have POA. She had a friend walk into the house to see what we were doing. Now she wants him to divorce me and blames me for everything. She will be moving into the house with us in Oct. 2024. I don't know how we are going to be able to live together.
POA is now removed from you. I have the feeling that elder son who is now POA may be filing with APS soon.
I would go to see an attorney ASAP for options of how best to handle all of this. We can't here know the details. This is a serious legal matter now. I wish you the best but you need expert help.