My parents are 62 and 63. Both drank heavily when they were younger and my mom is a recovered alcoholic. Both are obese and their diets are not that great, my mom's is better than my dad's, he eats like a child at times. My dad is a type 2 diabetic and my mom has severe mental illness and just got diagnosed with fatty liver disease. Alzheimer's runs on my mom's side of the family.
I have multiple disabilities that have made it so I can't work anymore (connective tissue disorder and brain damage) and am on SSDI. I make less than $800 a month.
Both of them are stubborn and have to be prodded into going to doctor's appointments. My dad is really bad about it, he almost died several times after ignoring both me and my mom's pleas for him to go to the hospital (food poising leading to dehydration both times). He is also a work-alcoholic and can be a bully at times.
They are both retired military, my mom is 100% disabled. They use the VA system.
We're moving to a large city so I can use public transportation and get services, but I have no clue what to do with them. My dad's side of the family is mostly deceased, the few remaining are not easy people to be around and my mom's side is scattered across a different state and rarely talk to one another.