The good news is that grandma isn't incontinent. She's been filling up diapers fairly often lately but not all the time. After having to change her pants twice in the last few hours, it seems to be the problem is that she's simply not pulling her pants down far enough anymore. So she ends up peeing into her pants and diaper. Which makes sense now why the wet pee is around the waistband and not the crotch. Any tips on how to get her to pull her pants down more? I tried talking to her about it but she insists they are down far enough. Clearly they aren't.