He doesn't shower nor shave for weeks on end. He also doesn't cut his finger nails nor his toe nails to a point that he scratches himself and sometimes bleeds from too much scratching. I live with him because I moved back home last year (from abroad) to help both my mom and him but very sadly my mom passed away in the midst of my move. So I'm stuck with him. I never got along with him and now I see how childish he is and how scared he is of me dying as well (I lost my brother two and a half year ago). So yes lots of emotional and draining events.
I've learned a bit to let go and I do of many things but it drives me crazy when I smell his bad odor all the time.
I know I'm supposed to move out and let him be and I'm working on finding a job. In the meantime, I "command" him to go and take a shower which I find so belittling and rude to do but it's one of the few times that he does.
Shall I continue this way or is there a better way to do this? Oh by the way, logical conversations are an absolute No-Go. :-(