My dad is 98-year-old. He can’t walk, he lost his strength on his hands and legs. He needs surgery. We are nine in the family, only five are healthy to help. How do I ask for help without hurting your feelings? I am stressed and I’m at the edge.
I agree, time for LTC. If you don't want to do it, then may be time for Hospice. You should get an aide to help with bathing and sometime to get out of the house. You still will need help because Hospice is not 24/7.
I think 5 extra people can at least give you a day a piece but don't expect it.
I think 5 extra people can at least give you a day a piece but don't expect it.