I've been taking care of her for almost 2 years now in my home and she's getting worse. She has MS and mental illness issues (hearing voices, paranoia, not able to care for herself). She is mostly wheelchair bound but is able to bathe herself. But that is all she can do in terms of independence. Since this not a situation where she is living in her own home, everything is in my name (lease, bills, etc). What is the best way to approach getting her into a nursing home? She's extremely combative, difficult and does not know what is best for her. I'm her only family willing to take care of her at this point. Multiple times it's been suggested that I have a home health aide come in to help, but that is not the situation I want. My mom is verbally abusive, unappreciative and I'm only 31 years old taking care of her full time. I don't want her living in my home anymore. She cannot handle living alone and any family I have refuses to help because of how angry and difficult she can be. What can I do to get her into a facility if she gets very angry and refuses? She will make a huge fuss and the facility might not want to take her against her will. I'm so worried because her condition is getting worse and she needs so much care, mental and physical.