My mom was recently diagnosed as capable of handling herself. This was needed to write up a new will. My brother and I have POA and she is living with him and his family right now and will visit me when she's ready. She can no longer live alone because she is getting very very forgetful. she can do most things herself, but as far as memory and minor things like driving , cooking etc, she is not able. How long do I let my brother stay in denial of her failing memory? The reason I ask is because since she cannot live in her big house anymore, I'd like to dissolve the contents and house and put the money in her account in case she needs medical attention ( like a nurse). My brother insists she is ok and takes her there to the house for weekends and his personal use. I am very torn because he placed himself in charge and has pushed me out of the picture all within 2 weeks of getting the POA.